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You finally scored those coveted Broadway tickets for Hamilton. Now you wonder: do people still dress up for Broadway shows? Read these tips from a life-long New Yorker and avid theatergoer on what to wear to a Broadway show to fit right in.
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Going to a Broadway show can be an integral part of a NYC family vacation. When packing for the trip, consider how you will dress. Here are some ground rules from a native New Yorker (me!) who has seen her share of shows:
There is no dress code. Some people dress up. Most don’t. Also, it depends on the show. If you are attending opening night, you might see people dressed up; they might be going to the cast party.
Business casual seems to be the rule at Broadway shows. Men might be in a suit jacket, no tie. Women look a bit more fashionable at “serious” theater, not touristy shows. After all, we New Yorkers have reputations to uphold. Keep in mind that black is the preferred color for most New Yorkers, and white pants aren’t worn after Labor Day. But at Moulin Rouge, the new Broadway hit, many in the audience were colorfully dressed.
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Celebrities in the Midst
I have sat in front of, behind, and next to countless stars. They tend to dress down and try to blend in. Meryl Streep, Jessica Lange and Jane Alexander all looked like regular theater-going New Yorkers when I saw them at the theater. In fact, the women are usually not even wearing makeup, trying to draw less attention to themselves.
At American Utopia, David Byrne’s show, no one was in a concert t-shirt. But still, people were dressed to dance. For the most part, the audience remained seated. But at a certain point, Byrne announced, “Feel free to dance. Check-in with your neighbors.” As one, the audience rose to its feet and grooved along to the Talking Heads songs.
Different Rules at Matinees
Kids and retirees rule at matinees. So you are likely to see women of a certain age in comfortable shoes and stretch pants. You can dress more casually for a matinee.
Wearing Your Hat
When men wore top hats, they knew to remove them indoors. But in our beanie world, hats remain on. I was at Jagged Little Pill, the musical set to Alanis Morisette’s hit album, and everyone around me was 20 years old and wearing a beanie.
At a revival of The Music Man, I sat behind Harry Connick, Jr. and he was wearing a big cowboy hat. But as soon as we took our seats behind him, he removed his hat (and charmed my daughter by complimenting her outfit).
Choose Your Coat Wisely
Most Broadway theaters are rather cramped. There isn’t a lot of room in those seats, and you don’t want to sit with your coat on your lap. Some, but not all, theaters have coat checks. Leave the big puffy coat or long fur at home.
If you DO choose to check a coat, be patient. There are often long lines at a coat check, both before and after the show. Have one person check all the coats while everyone else goes to the bathroom.
As a parent, you probably don’t leave the house without a giant bag filled with snacks, toys, book, spare outfits, water bottles, hand sanitizer, Band-aids and more. If you can, ditch the bag and just stash a granola bar and water bottle in your pocket. Every Broadway show now requires a bag check, which can lead to long lines. If you don’t have a bag, you can skirt the line, head straight for the restrooms and skip that line.
Speaking of Restrooms
We know. That jumpsuit is adorable. But have I mentioned the cramped and crowded theaters? This includes restrooms, some with the toilet just inches from the stall door. Don’t risk a bathroom mishap.
I used to be one of those people wearing a scarf at a show because I was always chilly. And yes, the air conditioning can be cranked up. But, menopause. Now, I wear a blazer and a sleeveless top underneath. While people around me are bundled up, I am stripping down.
For the rest of the population, a scarf or a wrap can be a good idea. It does get chilly in theaters. This is important year round. Summers are sticky in New York but you have to dress for both outdoor heat and indoor chill. Don’t wear shorts to the theater, and if you wear a sundress, bring a sweater.
In winter, the doors to the outside are often propped open to combat over-performing heating systems. At a recent show, my husband wore his coat.
Kids Night on Broadway
For Kids Night on Broadway, you see some kids dressed in little blazers or coat with velvet collars. Others are wearing sweaters and jeggings. Really, no one cares what your children wear to the theater. They just want to enjoy the show without hearing your kid talking. Choose your battles.
Kids Night on Broadway, where you get a free ticket for a child for every full price ticket you buy, is on February 25, 2020.
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Where People DO Dress Up
In November, Lexus gave me tickets to the New York City Ballet. INTERSECT BY LEXUS and the New York City Ballet had a retrospective exhibit, Design in Motion, on ballet costumes. I wore a dress and my husband wore a suit.
The funny part was that I had a meeting midtown and there was terrible traffic going to Lincoln Center. I was worried I’d be late, so I jumped on a CitiBike. It can literally be the fastest way to get around sometimes. But it was a little odd biking (only 15 blocks) in a dress and heels.
When you’re in the theater district, be sure to check out other things to do in Times Square.