Even the most seasoned traveling parents can get clammy hands and a racing heart when thinking about flying with baby for the first time. Take some deep breaths and read our tips. You’ll learn why sometimes you have to buy a seat for your baby, how to change a diaper on a plane and why baby wearing is the way to go.
Flying with a Baby
Traveling with infants and traveling with kids young enough to be in car seats can equal headaches for Traveling Moms. But these 14 tips for flying with a baby can make family trips easier.
- Think long and hard about which flight you book.
- Consider your baby’s schedule.
- Practice baby wearing.
- Lap child or separate seat?
- Flying with multiple babies or other kids?
- Bring ID for baby.
- Strategize your packing.
- Ziploc bags are lifesavers!
- Bring a change of clothes for baby — or several.
- What can you bring for your baby through airport security?
- Allow extra time.
- No reserved seat for baby? Check at the gate.
- When is the best time to nurse or bottle feed baby?
- Identify which restroom has a changing table once you’re onboard.
Before Flying With Baby
1. Think long and hard about which flight you book.
While finances may steer you towards the cheapest flight, that is not the only thing to consider. Consider flight duration, layovers and even which airline you choose. The flight that costs an extra $40 but is nonstop in the middle of the day will be worth every extra penny. Airlines can also make a difference here. Many TravelingMom writers LOVE to fly Southwest Airlines because of their family-friendly attitude. Also remember that when you travel with a baby, you’ll likely want to check luggage. So factor in luggage fees before you book.
One more fee to consider if you’re taking an international flight: Some countries charge entry taxes on a baby that have to be ahead of time. Call your airline for details.
Read More: Essential Tips for Flying Southwest Airlines with Kids
2. Consider your baby’s schedule.
If y’all stay close to home most of the time, consider taking a few long car rides ahead of your trip. A baby who is only accustomed to short periods of time in a car seat may not do so well strapped in for a several-hour flight. A few naps in the car seat during drives will do wonders for kiddos’ comfort level once they are on the plane.
3. Practice babywearing.
Babywearing — carrying the baby in a sling or other carrier that straps on to the adult — allows you to go through TSA security checkpoints while having your hands free. To wear a baby through TSA, choose a buckle carrier (with no metal). During the flight, you can wear a baby (making it significantly easier to bring diaper changing gear to the lavatory) except during takeoff and landing.
There are many different types of baby carriers. They range from ring slings to wraps to soft structured buckle carriers like Ergo, Tula, Baby Bjorn, and Infantino. A stretchy carrier like a Moby or Boba will allow you to take the baby in and out freely without having to retie or refasten.
If you have never tried babywearing before, head to a Babywearing International meeting near you to try different carrier styles to find the one that works best for you and for baby.
4. Lap child or separate seat?
Until the age of 2, a baby can fly as a lap child for free. While it’s always tempting to save that money, sometimes it isn’t in your best interest. Factors to consider: How long is the flight? Will you be traveling with another adult who can hold the baby for part of the flight?
5. Flying with multiple babies or other kids?
If you are flying solo with twin babies or one baby and another child under age 2, you will need to buy a seat for at least one of the babies. That’s because adults are limited to one lap child.
There’s a good reason for that: Airplane rows only have 1 additional oxygen mask. A plane configured with 3 seats per side will have 4 oxygen masks. Two adults flying with 2 lap children will NOT be allowed to sit in the same row. In the unlikely event of an emergency, there would be only 4 oxygen masks and the person in the third seat would not have a mask.
What to Pack for Flying with Baby
6. Bring ID for baby.
You may not automatically think to bring paperwork for baby, but many airlines will want to see a birth certificate. A baby has to be at least 14 days old to fly on most airlines. They will not let you on the flight if you cannot prove the baby’s age.
Traveling out of the country? Baby will need a passport. If only one parent is traveling, it is always a good idea to carry a consent letter from the other parent consenting to the travel.
When we lived in Vermont, I used to go to Montreal frequently with my daughter. We used to take a photo on my phone of my husband holding her with a consent letter in hand before each trip. I was only asked about it one time.
7. Strategize your packing.
You’ll have the urge to pack everything conceivable when flying with a baby. While it is good to be prepared, the most important thing is accessibility. If you have to dig through 18 inches of densely packed baby gear on the plane while holding a crying baby, you might be cursing your preparedness.
Choose a carry-on bag with outside pockets so items that are most likely to be needed are easily accessible. After four children, I’ve worked my way through a fair share of diaper bags, and I always come back to a backpack. It leaves hands free for baby and can fit items for you as well.
8. Ziploc bags are lifesavers!
Pack a couple of big Ziploc bags (gallon size or so). Ziploc bags are incredibly versatile. Stick diapers and a few wipes in one for quick lavatory changes. Use another Ziploc for anything liquid/goopy that you’ll need to pull out at the security checkpoint. More empty Ziplocs can be used to hold stinky diapers if a trash can isn’t immediately available.
Read More: The Ultimate Packing Travel Hacks: 7 Uses for Ziploc Bags
9. Bring a change of clothes for baby. And for you.
As someone who wound up covered in puke from a sick 13-month-old, please remember to bring a change of clothes for you as well as the baby. I hope you never find out how important this tip is.
10. What can you bring for your baby through airport security?
Formula, pumped milk, and baby food are all fair game, EVEN if they are over the 3.4-ounce limit. Just be sure to let the TSA agent know that you have baby items BEFORE putting them through the machine. The agents will hand inspect them.
If you need water for the formula, you can bring it through security, even if it’s a full-size water bottle. I highly recommend bringing room temperature water. Once you get past security most water will be chilled and most babies don’t like cold beverages.
Read up on these TSA Flying with Baby Rules ahead of time. Or print them out and bring them to the airport with you.
Airport Tips When Flying with a Baby
11. Allow extra time.
Add time to your normal airport routine. There is a good chance you will need to check in at the ticket counter to get a lap child added to your ticket. Most airlines will also then check the birth certificate you brought to be sure the baby is not over the lap child age allowed. This can take time if there is a long line.
12. No reserved seat for baby? Check at the gate.
If you haven’t purchased a seat for your infant, stop by the gate once you’re through security. There may be an empty seat on the plane that you can use for the baby. You can also find out what time preboarding or family boarding starts and get luggage tags for your stroller and car seat.
13. When is the best time to nurse or bottle feed baby?
Plan to nurse or bottle-feed your baby as the plane takes off and lands. Changes in cabin pressure can cause pain in little ears. A pacifier can also work if your child will take one. The sucking motion for all of these things will help prevent ear pain (and a screaming baby).
14. Identify which restroom has a changing table once you’re onboard.
There are lots of schools of thought about changing diapers in the seats themselves. We love these tips for changing diapers on a plane.
Have you flown with a baby? What are your best tips for flying with baby?
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This is fabulous. very helpful information for new mums like me.. we are heading to Canada with the baby its his first flight so i need all of this information & the comfy that he can make it cross-country without us losing our minds. thanks for sharing..
Thanks! Good luck.
Hi! Thanks for all the travelling tips I really appreciate it! Your blog is really helpful! I am bound to travel with my baby soon and your tips are worth remembering.
And why would you even be on the website travelingmom.com?? To be rude and demeaning.
#3- Amy- I feel sorry for your mother. Wait until you become a mother and your attitude will change. I had your demeaning attitude at one point in my life and readjusted. I actually hope I sit by you and will make your airplane ride miserable!
#6- Dude- part of life…feel sorry for your mother too….she should have raised your better. Hate to be in your life.
That’s the problem these days with people like this….instead of being demeaning and hateful, one should be considerate and helpful. Then the world would be in a better place.
Here is the only tip you need when it comes to thinking about bringing your baby on a flight-DON’T.
If you do,though,accept that a lot of people resent it and for good reason.
There are a lot of us who dont care why you think you need to fly with baby.We just care that we dont want to have to see hear or smell it.
We can agree to disagree on that. I traveled for business weekly for years and flew over 500K a year. There are many many more adults that I met who were less welcome on the plane to me than a baby. That being said it is important for parents to be prepared and cognizant of people around them when they fly to ensure that everyone’s experience is satisfactory.
Anyone who would change a baby in an airplane seat is a disgusting human IMO. Why should everyone else be subjected to faecal germs just because its a child? That is disgusting.
Don’t even think of changing diapers at your seat. The only place to change diapers is in the bathroom.
Agreed. It is far more sanitary and pleasant for everyone involved. That being said occasionally with flights where we have not been allowed to get up that needed a diaper change I have perfected a quick pee diaper change on my lap (NEVER on the airplane seat- gross!).
I recently told a woman with a baby no when she dared ask me to trade seats so she could have the extra FREE seat I lucked into being next to for her noisy replicant. No one else with a spare chair accomodated her and her unwelcome freeloader, either.
I also have and will continue to complain if someone tries to inflict the BIOHAZARD of diaper changing or breastfeeding on me by trying to do either next to my seat. I know many others who also complain about this, and women who try it DO get told they must use appropriate places.
If someone tries apologising in advance for their baby being noisy , I will apologise in advance for my reflexive lashing out at anything that touches me or makes loud noise when I am resting, which I will be doing on the flight.Expect a LOT of purposely vulgar language from my husband and myself that isn’t aimed at you, but will be intentionally offensive, if you cannot keep your kid quiet.
I wish I could be on a flight with you or a person just like yourself. I would purposely make your life a living hell. Also if anything is directed toward my kids such as rudeness, I would more than likely be removed from the flight because of the ruckus that I would keep up. But not before I had a hand full of your hair and left you with a Souvenir black eye.
If someone wanted to be rude with their baby’s diaper, they would dump it right in your lap. Not put it nicely in a closed plastic bag.
People need to realize they were once babies/kids also.
Why are.you even reading traveling mom, Amy? This guilting and shaming on a thread trying to help those dealing with the stress of travel and raising their little ones is wholly unnecessary.
THANK YOU! I am just reading these comments and I cant believe the hostility. THank you thank you thank you for writing this comment. Your a stand up guy.
I actually disagree w/the suggestion of getting on the plane first. Only do that IF you have car seats to install. If you do not have car seats to install then wait until the last possible minute to board. That’d mean less time in a confined space.
Along w/the gate check suggestion – always put car seats and strollers in gate check bags – not plastic bags of any kind – they will rip. You can find these bags on amazon and other retailers. They’re easier to spot when you pick up your item AND it keeps them clean!
We did a rewrite on this and we’re in agreement. I actually only prefer to get on first if it is a little baby. When my son was 3 months and under it was easier to get in and get fastened. But for some older kids getting on too early gives them time to get antsy and cranky. We do fly Southwest a lot and in those cases we always use family boarding so we don’t have any issues getting seats together.
Great tips! I will add two. First, try and change the baby in the bathroom as it will keep diapers in the garbage and not in the seat back pocket. If not, please throw out diapers as soon as possible.
If you have an extra set of hands, have them board first with gear and you board with the little one last. If you do get that “free” seat, should include the window because that is where car seats go for safety.
You are absolutely correct. The car seat always has to go all the way in so it doesn’t block anyone’s exit. My changing pad has an area for a roll of plastic baggies. I always prefer to change in the lavatory but if I can’t make it there I always put it in a bag and seal it off!