Mom's Trip to Pakistan Fraught with Danger

Traveling Mom, founder of World Shoppe and fair trade importer of jewelry and women's accessories, Megy prepares for a buying trip to Pakistan, where a militant raid just left 11 people dead.
Pakistan1Two weeks before I’m scheduled to head to Pakistan, a militant raid on a convoy carrying supplies for the NATO forces in Afghanistan leaves at least 11 people dead. The news heightens my anxiety as I prepare to leave my family in America to travel half-way around the world to meet with women artisans in Pakistan.

I’ve been invited to travel to the country as an international buyer/consultant. As a fair trade importer of jewelry and women’s accessories from South Africa, I’m familiar with this type of trip. As founder of World Shoppe, a fair trade online marketplace and importer, I work directly with artisans to develop products that would appeal to the Western market.

South Africa

Last year, the South African Consulate invited me to visit in the hopes that I could develop a long term relationship with several artisans. I was happy to be a part of the international delegation of 19 buyers from the United States, Germany, the Netherlands and Japan. I had never been to the African continent and was excited to learn more about the artisans' work, styles and how we could work together to aid in the economic development of their country.

As a result of that South Africa trip, I’m now working with two artisan groups. One is a group of 18 artisans from the Western Cape province who make copper and brass jewelry and the other is a group of 50 women, based in the Eastern Cape, who hand knit mohair scarves in their rural homes. I am happy to report that their products are carried in more than two dozen shops throughout the United States and growing every single week as more shops learn of our high design and high quality products.

Pakistan

Pakistan2So, naturally, when the opportunity presented itself to go on a similar trip to Pakistan to work directly with women artisans, I jumped at the chance. I knew Pakistan was in the news regularly because of the war in neighboring Afghanistan and it wasn’t exactly a safe country to visit. But I figured if the trip was being planned by a non-governmental organization, we’d be OK. I filled out the necessary forms and joined a conference call security briefing.

It was during that security briefing call that my heart began to pound. As the traveling mom of two small children, I quickly realized how dangerous this trip would be. I learned online that Pakistan is on the U.S. Embassy’s list of Travel Warnings. That means the U.S. government would find it difficult to help me if I had a problem while traveling in Pakistan.

What had I gotten myself into?

Choosing to go to Pakistan

As I began contemplating whether to cancel the trip, it dawned on me that I’d be gone for just days. But the people living in Pakistan have to deal with this danger on a daily basis. As the child of refugees, I grew up hearing how war affected the lives of my own parents, aunts, uncles and grandparents. It made me that much more determined to go and do my best to work with these women.

Nonetheless, I’m not naïve. I also decided to prepare myself and my family even more so for this trip so I can ensure my safety and lessen their fears for my safety while I’m gone.

Traveling Smart

Pakistan3Since 99.9 percent of the clothes in my closet are inappropriate, I had to buy long, loose-fitting pants and tops that go over my hips with sleeves that go to the wrist. I plan to pack at least two long scarves to cover my head if necessary.

Clothing issues aside, my real dilemma is communication. In a country where we’re wired 24 hours a day, seven days a week, not being in touch is a troubling feeling. I decided I would take my WiFi laptop so I could communicate with my family via email and Facebook (Pakistan lifted the ban on Facebook as of May 31). I rented an international phone through Verizon’s Global Travel Plan package (which I highly recommend) and we will have Pakistani cell phones to communicate with personnel in Pakistan.

Next I called my health insurance company to see if my health insurance coverage in the United States would cover me in Pakistan (it does) and I bought additional medical evacuation insurance for peace of mind. I know which hotels I’ll be staying at and have included the information in a document I’ll leave with my husband in case he can’t reach me via email or cell phone. I have exchanged American dollars for Pakistan Rupees so I’ll have money on hand when I get off the plane.

The Plan for Pakistan

My travel plans, at this point, are taking me to Islamabad, the capital of Pakistan, and then to Karachi, a southern port city. More than 70 percent of supplies for NATO forces are shipped through Karachi, then transported by road to the international forces in Afghanistan.  My plans may change at the last minute due to heightened security restrictions. We’ve been advised to play it safe and listen to our security personnel at all times.

Despite all of this pre-trip worrying, I am excited to meet the women, some of whom I have already “met” thanks to Facebook. I have had a chance to see their portfolio of work and it is stunning .

At the end of the day I have to keep reminding myself why I agreed to be part of this trip. Women’s rights are human rights. Every single one of us deserves an opportunity to excel at what we do best.

Throughout the trip, I’ll be updating my Fair Trade TravelingMom blog and you can also follow us on Facebook where I hope to post photos and updates of our trip, the women artisans and life in Pakistan.

This is the first installment of a three-part series on Megy's trip to Pakistan. Coming soon: her impressions upon arriving in Pakistan.

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#6 Justine Ickes 2010-07-22 13:40
I too travel frequently for my work with international NGOs so I can relate to some of the fears you write about. But I agree with Ashley that it is important to present the positive aspects of so-called "dangerous" places. If we can continue to do that, we can do our part to break the cycle of fear of other cultures.
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#5 Masooma 2010-06-18 12:48
Dear,
Megy

We are really feeling honored and pleased by your visit to Pakistan in such circumstances. Your visit is a source of encouragement for us. We are looking forward to meet you in Pakistan and hope that we will be abe to do something to improve the living conditions of lots of people living under poverty line. Hope that you enjoy your stay in the country of culture and heritage.
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#4 Saman Qureshi 2010-06-18 11:48
Looking forward to welcoming you in Pakistan. You will totally be surprised at what the ground reality is and I hope you can truly be an ambassador for Pakistan when you go back home.
I wish you an amazing trip and trust me you'll want to come back again some day :-)
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#3 ZIK 2010-06-17 13:56
Hi Megy

Loved your post! I am sure you'll be pleasantly surprised when you're in Pakistan :-) We are more wired and connected than many other countries, sometimes painfully so! I agree with Ashley's posts and look forward to welcoming you to this beautiful country with its complexities. Hope to meet with you at the event.
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#2 Ashley Barr 2010-06-16 05:36
Unfortunately, the second half of my note was cut off. I offered some positive points that might be of interest about relaxed women's fashion in Karachi and Islamabad, ubiquitous WiFi, international cell phone access, distinguishing between Afghanistan and Pakistan, far-away dangers, and U.S. Embassy help to guests of U.S. government corporate contractors. My letter ended with, "I look forward to future blog posts. May your trip be safe, inspiring, and productive." Best, Ashley Barr
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#1 Ashley Barr 2010-06-16 05:26
Dear Fair Trade Traveling Mom,

I'm excited about your project and look forward to meeting you. I can understand your security concerns about your travel to Pakistan, and I salute your intrepid spirit and fantastic work in support of women entrepreneurs around the world.

May I enlist your help with something? Many expats who live in Pakistan try hard to combat the public perceptions abroad that Pakistan is dangerous and backwards. The U.S. funded program that you're a part of is a potentially positive element in changing those oft-repeated perceptions.

It would mean a lot to me (and perhaps others) if your blog could downplay (or contextualize more fully) the perceived "dangers" and other anticipated negatives in favor of themes that are more constructive for mutual understanding and correcting the public record. You've already alluded to many positive themes in your first blog post, so I know there'll be much more to come.

For example ... Many women in Islamabad and Karachi wear close-fitting, sleeveless, very fashionable clothes. Only a few cover their heads, and you certainly won't need to. Almost everywhere you'll be in Pakistan, you'll have WiFi, so it's great that you're bringing your computer, as you would to Europe or elsewhere. Cell phones with cheap international access (and of course Skype) are ubiquitous.

Pakistan and Afghanistan are two dramatically different places, and many Pakistanis are uncomfortable with the two countries being lumped together, especially by Americans. Attacks on NATO supplies and etc are almost always in very far-off border areas (though there are important exceptions, of course).

U.S. Embassy warnings are overstated almost everywhere in the world, probably in part because of insurance liability issues. (In any case, you would be one of the first or only non-diplomats the U.S. Embassy would be able to help, because you've been invited by a U.S. government contractor (not an NGO) to Pakistan.)

I hope you'll accept these thoughts in the positive spirit they're intended, and I do look forward to your future posts. May your trip be safe, inspiring, and productive.

Best,
Ashley Barr
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